Growing Up: Instructions Not Included

Independent Project
Exhibition
In-person
Jan 22
–
Jan 31 2027
Free
Jan 23, 2027
5:00pm – 8:00pm
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Jan 22Fri 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 23Sat 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 24Sun 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 25Mon Closed
Jan 26Tue 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 27Wed 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 28Thu 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 29Fri 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 30Sat 9:00am – 7:00pm
Jan 31Sun 9:00am – 7:00pm
Croquembouche 1494 Danforth Avenue, Toronto.

‘Growing Up: Instructions Not Included’ is a mixed-media spatial series exploring the humorous, messy journey of raising children and, by extension, ourselves. It captures the universal parenting paradox of the “long days and short years” – the desperate wish to reach a child’s next milestone, contrasted with a nostalgia for the fleeting phases of childhood they have already left behind.

While deeply rooted in the parental experience, the exhibition extends an open invitation to anyone who has ever been parented. It offers a playful, poignant space for viewers to connect with their inner child and reflect on the universal growing pains we all share. Moving beyond mere nostalgia, the collection draws on developmental psychology to frame this shared journey as an active opportunity for profound self-improvement.

Rather than viewing the passage of time as a loss, these works celebrate the messy business of life with relentless optimism. They frame our shifting identities, our mistakes, and the ongoing act of learning to communicate as a vibrant expansion of the self. Acting as an immersive archive of becoming, the exhibition features layered, conceptual wall works, a sculptural plinth piece, and a dynamic ceiling installation that physicalizes the sudden, shifting weather of childhood emotions.

Participants

IS Design Labs (Iliana Sergeev)

Accessibility

Who should visitors contact with questions regarding accessibility?
Tierry Robert (cafe owner)
Is this venue accessible by wheelchair or similar mobility devices? This includes access to washrooms and all aspects of programming/events.
Yes
Can people get to the venue using accessible transit?
Yes
A large, clear acrylic panel mounted to a wall with metal standoffs, displaying an intricate map of a neighbourhood. The minimalist street grid is heavily overlaid with dense, colourful clusters building block toy bricks that build up the residential blocks and community spaces.
'Coordinates of Belonging' by Iliana Sergeev.
A close-up detail of a painted artwork featuring thick, swirling pink and white brushstrokes that resemble flower petals. Black cursive handwriting follows the curves of the painted petals, continuously repeating words like "chaos," "mess," "joy," and "love." A white baby pacifier is affixed directly to the painted surface near the center.
'Birth Flower' by Iliana Sergeev.
A multi-layered, clear acrylic sculpture resting on a white rectangular base. The cut acrylic panels form a sweeping, organic shape that rises in the center, resembling both a topographical landscape and the internal anatomy of a breast. The transparent layers are intricately detailed with white, vein-like lines and densely clustered with colorful, sparkling rhinestones. The piece is softly illuminated from below.
'Topography of Nurture' by Iliana Sergeev.
A square white shadow box illuminated from within, creating an infinity mirror effect against a clean, light grey studio background. Black, childlike handwriting on the front glass reads "FORAVR AYLOUYOO AYLOUYOO MAMA AND PAPA," with colorful toys, markers, a toy car, and building blocks visible in the brightly lit reflection behind the text.
'Foravr Aylouyoo' by Iliana Sergeev. In Collaboration with Vitaly Sergeev.
A wide horizontal wall artwork featuring a sequence of vertical bars mounted on a white surface. The bars on the far left are covered in plain, minimalist grey felt. As the sequence moves to the right, the bars gradually transition, becoming densely encrusted with vibrant, chaotic clusters of childhood toys, LEGO bricks, and miniatures.
'Minimalism Meets Reality' by Iliana Sergeev.
"Hamming It Up" by Iliana Sergeev. Mixed media.